3:22 After this Jesus and his disciples went into the Judean countryside, and he remained there with them and was baptizing. 23 John also was baptizing at Aenon near Salim, because water was plentiful there, and people were coming and being baptized 24 (for John had not yet been put in prison). 25 Now a discussion arose between some of John’s disciples and a Jew over purification. 26 And they came to John and said to him, “Rabbi, he who was with you across the Jordan, to whom you bore witness—look, he is baptizing, and all are going to him.” 27 John answered, “A person cannot receive even one thing unless it is given him from heaven. 28 You yourselves bear me witness, that I said, ‘I am not the Christ, but I have been sent before him.’ 29 The one who has the bride is the bridegroom. The friend of the bridegroom, who stands and hears him, rejoices greatly at the bridegroom’s voice. Therefore this joy of mine is now complete. 30 He must increase, but I must decrease.”
In the movie 27 Dresses, one of the protagonists mentions something profound about bridesmaid dresses, “I'm telling you that this is an instrument of torture inflicted on you by a bride who wants you to look ugly!” In one sweeping statement, this character captures what weddings are all about. Bridesmaids are clearly not the focal point of weddings. A bride’s dress is designed to upstage a bridesmaid’s dress, not the other way around. Weddings are about the people getting married. They are not about the rest of the bridal party, guests or officiant. They are centrally about the bride and groom.
Similarly, John the Baptist understood that he was not the main man. Using the metaphor of a wedding, he explains that he is not the bridegroom, but merely the friend of the bridegroom. He is there to support and praise the one getting married. Also, as a friend, he is not jealous of the bridegroom, but celebrates him. This is not some unappreciative relative that attends the wedding begrudgingly. John rejoices in the bridegroom. He even goes so far as to say, “this joy of mine is now complete.”
John the Baptist was the last of the Old Testament prophets, but not the least of them. As a tribute, Jesus calls him “a burning and shining lamp” (John 5:35). Elsewhere, Jesus explains that “among those born of women there has arisen no one greater than John the Baptist” (Matthew 11:11). Yet, from John’s lips, it is apparent that even a man like him does not deserve the same honour and praise that Christ deserves: “He must increase, but I must decrease.”
Hudson Taylor was the first missionary to venture into inland China to share the gospel of Jesus Christ. He not only believed that it was necessary to reach the unreached people groups of China, he also believed that it was prudent to understand the culture. He pioneered missional contextualization in China. Dressing in traditional Chinese attire and speaking the local tongue, he shared the gospel by minimizing cultural differences between him and the people of China. On top of revolutionizing missions in China, he also established a missions organization called China Inland Mission (CIM), essentially becoming its first director.
The next person to lead CIM was D.E. Hoste. Boy, did he have big shoes to fill! On the contrary, Hoste understood that Christians are not in the business of oneupmanship. Patrick Fung, the first Chinese Director of OMF (formerly CIM), says that Hoste “lived to be forgotten in order that Christ might be remembered.”
John the Baptist and D.E. Hoste both loved the Great Bridegroom more than they loved their vocation, status or position. They were humble men in the midst of amazing God. There is no doubt that we can benefit from their example.